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Shop Til You Drop

No More Frogs To Kiss, By Joline Godfrey, Reprinted with permission from Harper Collins Publishing

Take a teen on three shopping expeditions:

  1. for food;
  2. for jeans or a pair of shoes
  3. for a piece of technical equipment - a CD player, a tape recorder, or a piece of computer equipment.

The goal of these expeditions is to introduce comparison-shopping. (Make it clear this is a simulation - not the real thing!)

Before leaving for the mall or Main Street, spend some time with her looking through newspaper ads or catalogs. Have her make a list of what she wants and how much she expects to spend. Select three stores in which to get prices for each product. Ask her to explain why she thinks prices might be the same or different. Discuss trade - offs (time versus price; convenience and service verses price, etc.). Make sure she asks a store employee about product benefits and differences as she compares products.

NOTE: As with many of the suggestions in this book, sometimes a parent is not the best mentor for one's own kids. Occasionally it helps to "swap kids." You might take a neighbors daughter on these expeditions and the neighbor might take yours.

 

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