The Valentine
Foundation (1991) names the following as things needed by girls in order
to be successful.
- Girls
need to be safe.
- They
need time to talk - in nurturing conversations with ongoing positive
relationships.
- They
need programs that encourage relationships of trust and interdependence
with the women who are a part of their lives.
- They
need their cultural and personal strengths to be recognized emphasized.
- They
need mentors whose history reflects their own lives.
- And
they need education about their bodies, pregnancy and disease.
It is
our stance that the needs of girls can be met by taking a holistic or
systemic approach when working with them.
Taking
a holistic approach when working with girls is essential for success.
When one works with girls, there is much more to consider than just
the "presenting" problem (e.g. criminal behavior or substance
abuse). One must consider and assess all of the relevant systems in
their lives looking for risk factor in order to intervene and protective
factors in order to enhance. The relevant systems include:
- Their
family life,
- Their
school,
- Their
peers and friends,
- Their
social activities,
- Their
neighborhood
In essence, one must evaluate and take into consideration their entire
"world."
When working with girls, all domains of their lives need to be addressed.
An effective approach will strengthen families, support core social
institutions, promote delinquency prevention, and intervene immediately
and effectively when delinquent behavior occurs. The services provided
need to provide care, protection, and treatment. The services and programs
should be located in the community, and whenever possible, reduce out
of home placement (Howell and Wilson, 1993).
When needs have been identified by considering risk factors and evaluating
presenting problems, it should be ensured that the services that are
advocated for and offered are appropriate for the needs of girls. These
service recommendations should be based solely on the needs of each
individual adolescent, and not just on funding availability. As stated
by Howell and Wilson (1993), " Its' goal should be to serve the
youth's needs, not the requirements of funding streams of various bureaucracies.
Collaborative efforts are needed among agencies responsible for assessing
the needs of at-risk youth and providing several simultaneous services
to maximize efforts." Girls need to have services addressing the
various domains of their world wrapped around them, with no gaps. This
is the only way one can ensure that all areas of need are addressed.
The approach one takes needs to be thorough and comprehensive.
Research
addressing gender specific services has consistently shown that it is
essential to establish a relationship with the adolescent girls in order
to be effective in your work (Surrey, 1991, Gilligan, 1982; 1990, Belenky
et a.l, 1986). When working with girls "establishing rapport"
is taken to a new level. Girls need to feel a connection in order to
trust. Without this connection, progress will be difficult if not impossible.
Boundaries
are essential in professional practice but that does not mean one cannot
establish an appropriate working relationship with the girls. All healthy
relationships, have boundaries. Allowing girls to trust and see adults
as caring human beings does not indicate that boundaries are broken,
but instead allows the teenage girl to see a healthy relationship in
action.
Girls
need a connection to an adult in a non-exploitive relationship. (Flansburg,
2001). In some cases there may be the presence of this person in the
girl's natural environment, in other cases this person may be an adult
treatment provider. However, even if the adolescent that you are working
with is involved in other healthy relationships, there must be a connection
between the two of you in order for you as the treatment professional
to have any influence in her life. For successful intervention, bonds
need to be formed. Research suggests that women tend to be relationship-oriented
(Gilligan, 1990). Treatment providers need to respect this and teach
girls how to differentiate between healthy and unhealthy relationships,
how to develop boundaries, and how to protect themselves from exploitive
relationships.
It is
also important to understand, respect, and honor the various cultural
backgrounds of the girls that you work with. Research indicates that
minority girls sometimes have different experiences of their gender
as well as different experiences with the dominant institutions of society.
One should be aware that every experience is unique and also that race
plays a role in these experiences. Programs should also be culturally
specific as well as gender specific (Chesney-Lind, 1998). The Valentine
Foundation (1991) recommends that programs tap girl's personal and cultural
strengths. Honoring and respecting the cultures of the girls with which
one works will not only enhance relationships and build trust but also
enhance self-esteem. Treatment providers need to give girls the opportunity
to recognize and be proud of their cultural diversity.