Denise Chrisman
- Be
Assertive. Say no and mean it. Having sex is YOUR choice and ONLY your choice.
You have the right to say no.
- Avoid
the Situation. If possible, avoid situations when you may be pressured. Avoid activities
that put you alone and away from others.
- Walk
Away. If
you're saying "no" and he's not listening, it's time to
go home. Leave before things get too heated.
- Repeat
Repeat Repeat. You
make sound like a broken record - that's ok.
- Give
an Excuse. Tell
him you're not ready, tell him you have to go home, tell him you do
not want to have sex.
- Change
the Subject. More appropriately, change the activity. It's time to go find friends,
go for a walk, or go home, etc.
- Stick
with Friends. If
you are feeling pressured to have sex, arrange activities where other
people are around.
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