Angela Monroe
Goodbye Cinderella Program
Samarkand Manor Youth Development Center

The objective of this activity is to introduce the girls to the concept of character and character development. This can be given as a handout as you discuss character or used in a group setting to assist in instruction.

Wouldn't it be nice if all girls had good values and strong character? But good character doesn't just happen. It's up to each of us to lay a foundation for character development by teaching girls right from wrong and by acting as positive role models. This session will help you teach girls that their character counts, that their success and happiness will depend on who they are inside, not what they have or how they look. Using the "Six Pillars of Character" will aid in teaching the girls that their every thought and action is rooted in their character.

1. First Pillar: Trustworthiness
   Trustworthiness is being honest, telling the truth, keeping promises, and being loyal so people can trust you. Trustworthy people don't lie, cheat or steal. They have integrity and the moral courage to do the right thing. They stand up for their beliefs even when it is hard to do so.
   
   
2. Second Pillar: Respect
   Respect is showing others that they are valued for who they are, for their character and not what they look like or what the have. It means treating others the way you want to be treated, never insulting or making fun of others who are different in looks, ability, race or religion. A respectful person is polite, does not use bad language and never uses violence.
   
   
3. Third Pillar: Responsibility
   Responsibility is doing what you are supposed to do. Responsible people think ahead, set reasonable goals, control their tempers and always do their best. They don't give up easily especially when others are counting on them, they are accountable for the consequences of their choices; they don't blame others for their mistakes.
   
   
4. Fourth Pillar: Fairness
   Fairness is playing by the rules, taking turns, sharing and listening. Fair people do not take advantage of others. They consider all sides before they decide and don't blame others unjustly.
   
   
5. Fifth Pillar: Caring
   Caring is being kind, helpful, and generous to everyone. Caring people are not selfish: they are considerate and always think about how their conduct affects others. They have compassion and empathy; they care how other feel and they are charitable and forgiving. They do good deeds without thoughts of reward.
   
   
6. Sixth Pillar: Citizenship
   Citizenship is doing your share to help your family and make your community a better place. Good citizens are good neighbors. They cooperate with others, obey laws, and rules, and respect the authority of parents, teachers and others. They protect the environment.